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Choose your life’s mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90% of your happiness or misery.


- H Jackson Brown

 

 

 

Relationship Coaching@ New Life Coach:

 

At New Life Coach we are dedicated to supporting singles to consciously create loving, lasting relationships; guiding committed couples to co-creating a functional Life Partnership and helping functional couples deepen their emotional intimacy, trust, love and connection which is why we offer Relationship Coaching for Singles and Couples.

 

When we learn to live life deliberately, we will begin to make conscious choices daily that move us toward success/fulfillment The distinction that separates people with superhuman sporting talent, great wealth, inspirational relationships, eternal internal peace etc. and those with ordinary lives is in the commitment and the discipline of becoming conscious ‘choosers’. While we would all like an extraordinary life, all great things are as difficult to achieve as they are rare to find. This is the great truth we often overlook when we gaze upon extraordinary success. Unfortunately too many people do not want change if there is any cost involved. If you are someone willing to ‘do what it takes’ to attract and or create an extraordinary relationship, Relationship Coaching is the perfect solution for you.

 

The Five Stages of Relationship Coaching
By David Steele, Relationship Coaching Institute - Used with permission

 

 

Stage 1: Readiness Coaching for Singles


Addresses the Readiness Questions: “Who am I?” “What do I want?” and “How do I get what I want?”

Coaching activities may include:
Relationship history
Personality assessment (traits, values, preferences etc.)
Identification of goals and needs
Clarify vision, requirements, needs and wants
Develop profile of desired Life Partner

Develop a “Relationship Plan” to manifest/ attract a Life Partner

 

Stage 2: Attraction Coaching for Singles

 

Focuses on effective dating attitudes, skills and choices.

Coaching activities may include:
Where and how to meet potential Life Partners
Becoming ready for a committed relationship
Effectively meeting people, developing networks, sorting
Staying on track with your Relationship Plan

 

 

Stage 3: Pre-Commitment Coaching


Helps couples be conscious and objective about the future of their relationship.

Coaching activities may include:
Become clear about whether this relationship is right for you
Getting a reality check, being accountable for what you want
Developing strategies for testing, decision-making
Addressing emotional and compatibility issues


Stage 4: Couples Coaching


Helps a committed couple co-create a functional Life Partnership.

Coaching activities may include:
Getting a committed relationship off to a good start
Effective communication and conflict resolution skills
Discovering and overcoming issues and obstacles around parenting, domestic responsibilities, finances, etc.

Identifying and negotiating wants, needs and goals


Stage 5: Bliss Coaching


Helps a committed couple with a functional relationship deepen their emotional intimacy, trust, love and connection.

Coaching activities may include:
Increasing authentic expression of thoughts, feelings, wants and needs
Ownership of emotional reactivity
Increasing mutual support, trust, safety around emotional vulnerabilities and intimacy

Developing skills, rituals and practices for deepening emotional, physical and spiritual connection and fulfillment

 

 

 

relationship coaching ..... coaching for singles ..... coaching for couples

 

 

Shelley had from the beginning a very professional, well organized and structured approach to our sessions. I felt completely safe with her and felt that she was absolutely non judgmental to any of my “negative” stuff. She always gave me a sense of being ok and capable, however big the challenges in my life seemed to be at the time. I felt uplifted by her compassion and presence. Her coaching has helped me to keep a positive perspective through a rough period of my life and I am deeply grateful to her.


-Margit Gilliot, Managing Director of Nalanda Ayurvedic Centre